What a bunch of assholes!
On After Dark tonight, there was a big discussion in the HOH room where Chelsia, James, Matt, and Ryan basically ripped on Natalie for like two hours straight. She was up there at first and talking to them about her ambitions of being an actress or about how she was raised to believe that if you really put your mind to something, you can achieve it. They were so rude to her, particularly Chelisa, and tearing her down in a back-handed-compliment sort of way. It was actually upsetting to witness and I changed the channel for a little while.
You could tell it hurt her feelings, so she left and went down stairs to talk to Josh and Sheila and be around people who don’t make it their personal mission to crush her spirit. Up in the HOH, they turned on the spy screen and made fun of Natalie as they watched her talk to Josh.
I know it’s crazy that I feel the need to defend her so much, but I think these fucking assholes are way too mean to Natalie and they end up looking like a bunch of total pieces of shit. So she’s a positive person with a constantly sunny attitude… what the hell is wrong with that? Why do they feel the need to shit on her every single chance they get? Just leave her alone and let her be the happy girl she is!
Matt keeps trying to justify his cruel comments by saying that he’s trying to teach her to be realistic. Chelsia echoed this statement saying that she talks shit about Natalie 24/7 because she wants to “prepare” her for the real world outside of the house. Of course, in the middle of these valuable lessons, they make fun of her look, say mean things about her family and talk about what amount of money they would have to be paid to have sex with her. During this conversation, the whole room laughed and said how much America probably thinks Natalie is ugly and stupid.
The whole thing played out like a scene from Mean Girls. They really have no reason to hate Natalie. She really has been nothing but kind to them. If anything, she’s been too kind and too friendly to them. I personally do like Natalie and, despite her kooky religious views (creation vs evolution, etc.) I think she is one of the most truthful people to play the game. It’s actually refreshing to see someone go in there and try to make friends and get along with people as opposed to trying to slit everyone’s throats to advance their own game.
I officially hate Chelsia now too, though I was leaning that way already. She is an arrogant, selfish, obnoxious, intolerable bitch. She would gladly whore herself to any of the guys in the house to stay in the game and she doesn’t even know how to play that evil character in an entertaining way. She prances around the house like she’s hot shit, when in fact she’s some no-chin skank who thinks she’s so punk rock and has probably gained like 40lbs since being in the house. The combination of James/Matt and Chelsia is unwatchable. They are so into themselves that it’s not even worth having the cameras there. It’s like Daniele from BB8 and the entire Nerd Herd from BB6 rolled into some horrific two-headed bastard child.
I think Ryan’s nominations were probably the most pussy move of the game thus far, if not one of the weakest moves in BB history. It makes no sense to target the weakest players (”if the veto’s used I’ll back door Sheila” WTF?) and leave all the strongest competitors in the game. The move this week should have been to take out Chelsia, James, or Matty because they are the people who will rule this house. I know Ryan thinks he’s in with the “bros” but someone like James would stab him in the back faster than you could say “back door nom”. Is he forgetting that they voted him out last week and he’s only here because of some concocted twist from the producers?
Ugh! This is the part in this game that I hate myself for watching it because there are like 3 people I like and a ton of people that I’d rather gouge my eyes out than watch. Right now, I want James, Chelsia or Matt gone, but Ryan’s a total bitch with no spine, so that won’t happen.
The only nice part of this is that I can turn off After Dark early and get some damn sleep.
I understand how you feel and how the house members feel about Natalie. I understand how they can feel annoyed by her constant upbeat attitude. If Nude is right, she is a former stripper, a bikini waitress, and is a bit loose based on her actions inside the house yet she is still so sunny and bright. You would think someone like that would have a dark side or at least not always see the positive aspects of everything. Yet she does. Personally, that irks me but at the same time I agree with you, there should be no reason for them to rag on the woman for her outlook on life. She is an adult now and its her responsibility to discover the world for what it is, not the other house guests to impose their way on her on how she should look at the world. To berate her is just mean and petty.
I read your post and wondered how you could think Ryan’s nominations are weak. You know better than me but based on your post today, it seems as if Natalie is the weakest player or the person most people do not like. He did not nominate her. So he did not nominate the weakest player. Second, last year you were all for knocking out the weak players like Jameka and Amber as early as possible. Why have you changed philosophies now?
Ryan is a wimp and sadly he won’t back door Matty, even if that is the smartest move. I hate the way Matty treats Natalie, but I also hate that Natalie allows this. I noticed when they interviewed her friends, they said she always picks guys who walk all over her. I can only hope when she sees this on TV, she will change how she reacts and deals with men. Matty needs to go!
They are too mean to her but she has proven that she’s not very smart and its easy for people to play her. I think she is one of those people that is always a victim and always gets hurt by other people because she doesn’t know that people will use her or take advantage of her